I read some where online that…
白头偕老这件事其实和爱情无关,只不过是忍耐。但忍耐却是一种爱。所以,真正爱你的人,其实就是愿意一直忍耐你的人。
After being married for more than 5 years and being an item with my wife for close to 15 years now. I can certainly attest that the above is true, although I do believe 包容 is a more fitting description, than 忍耐. Either way, I sincerely thank my wife for annoying me all these years, at the same time, taking in all my shit without much complain.